Proposing on Valentine's Day can be tricky. On one hand, it is the most romantic day of the year and also one of the most popular days of the year to propose. On the other hand, proposing on a holiday can turn become very cliché if it isn't done properly. Here are a few tips that will help you navigate popping the question on Valentine’s Day. #popthequestion #shesaidyes #planperfect #p2partyperfectco
Do think of a way you can surprise her even though a lot of women expect a proposal on Valentine's Day. Accomplish this by doing something to throw her off. For example, tell her you have a romantic dinner reservation at 7 but instead, right as you are about to leave a huge choir holding candles appears in your front yard and serenades her with your song.
Don't propose at an expected time. Again, throwing her off is important so the last thing you want to do is to propose over dinner or some other obvious time. Do not have a waiter bring your ring out on a tray or anything predictable. The element of surprise is a must, especially on Valentine's Day.
Do think about how she would want to look on the day she gets proposed to. Is she the kind of girl that would be disappointed if she were wearing jeans on the big day? If you know your girlfriend would be mortified to have a photographer take a picture of her with no makeup on, make sure she is dolled up for the big moment.
Don't over-plan. For some reason when men get stressed out, they can overdo things. Keep in mind that you can go overboard, although you want to make this a very special moment remember you don’t need all the bells an whistles to get a yes to your proposal. So, if you think hiring extra singers, dancers, limos, helicopters, flowers, musicians, will make it more memorable that’s not the case, and the logistics alone would be way too much stress for you to organize. Just a couple "big" surprises are more than enough.
Do think about her personality type when deciding on the proposal idea. Ask yourself if she is the kind of girl who would enjoy a public or a private proposal before you start planning things. If your girlfriend hates to be the center of attention, a public proposal would likely mortify her.
Do consider documenting the proposal. If your girlfriend is the type that loves to share photos on social media or likes to scrapbook, then she will really appreciate you hiring a photographer to capture the moment. If she is camera shy, you might want to skip it.
Don't hide the ring in a ridiculous place. This includes but is not limited to; in a champagne glass, in a cupcake, in a box of chocolates and finally, somewhere you can lose it or easily forget about it.
Do have help. Just as women hire Day of Coordinators for their wedding day, have someone that will help you take care of details so that you can enjoy your day stress-free. Consider hiring a proposal planner to help you hammer out a few of the details.
Don't be afraid to be emotional. There is a social stigma that men are not supposed to cry but during a proposal, many men do. Don't worry about that. On your proposal day, you should be emotional, and you should be telling your girlfriend all the reasons that you can't live without her. Your emotion will make it even more endearing.
Do laugh if something goes wrong. If something unexpected happens, don't sweat it just roll with the moment. It will all be part of the proposal story you tell later, and it adds character to the event.
Don't have expectations for how she will react. I have seen so many reactions from women who get proposed to. Some laugh, some cry, some scream, even curse! You never know what someone's reaction will be when they are in shock so don't feel let down if you don't get a reaction you thought you would. Just go with the flow and let her emotion come naturally.
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